In most people, they are intimately related. I remember discovering this in R.E. as a teenager. ‘Describe the strengths and weaknesses of x’s reign’ read the question. Answering I realised his strengths usually lead to his disasters.
So I don’t know whether to be delighted or dismayed when one of the children lets their hearts rule their heads just as I would.
But I do know my youngest is sometimes quite dismayingly like me.